1. Play the Game You’re Dealt — But Play Well

Life is not fair, and it never said that it would be. Some begin on “easy mode,” others on “hard.” You cannot alter the difficulty level you were born on, but you can decide how you play. Respect is not gained by coasting; respect is gained by flourishing in the face of adversity.

2. People Skills Beat Pure Talent

In life and work, technical skills only get you so far. Opportunities and promotions usually go to the skilled and the personable. Practice listening, teamwork, and making others feel valued. It’s one of the best-payoff skills you can learn.

3. Break the Walls of Loneliness

Wave at strangers. Greet the barista. Hello to the children on the school bus. Tiny connections close the gap between us and cause you to recall that we’re all in this together.

4. Express Appreciation for Effort

Praise the meal when someone else prepares it for you. Thank the service workers. Treat with respect anyone who works for a living, regardless of what they do. Kindness is free but weighs heavily.

5. Count Your Blessings Daily

Life seems darker if you focus on what’s lacking. Write down even small pleasures — a good soup…